So your agent walks through your home with you, and
tells you, “This has to go, this can stay, move this over here, paint these
walls, get rid of the cat box (ugh!), take down these pictures and these family photos,” etc.
It’s all about “curb appeal”
inside the house, in every room, making it possible for potential buyers to see
themselves living in your home. (And of
course, now they will take a video tour of your home online before they ever
get in the car.)
Many, if not most, existing
homes are sold this way—with your furniture in the home … but not too much! Or
maybe some of your furniture isn’t up to snuff, so you rent or buy new
furniture to increase the appeal of your home.
But it’s all about the
impression that is created—from the time people drive up to the house (which
they say is a time many people will decide “this is it” before they ever walk
in the door), to the walk onto the front porch, through the front door and then
into each room of the home.
It’s all about the walk-through.
But they don’t really see “your”
home, do they? They see a sanitized, idealized, made for TV, made for
“creating-the-best-possible-impression” house.
What would people see if they
walked through your home right now…maybe
they’re not interested in buying your home. Maybe they’re interested in “buying”
or checking out your family values, your core beliefs … in other words, what glues your family together (or maybe what pulls your family
apart?).
What will they see in your
home?
Will they discover in you a
family with Christian values and Christ’s love running deep in your
relationships—your interactions—with one another? And just what would that look
like?
Room by room, what would they see, if they observed your
mealtime together (maybe on the couch in front of the TV rather than in the
dining room – or maybe you have a TV right there in the kitchen and it’s on
during every meal?).
What will they learn about your family:
- as they look at the appointments calendar hanging in your kitchen;
- or the computer’s history over the past few weeks;
- the magazines in the bathroom
- the music or talk radio you're listening to;
- the pictures and magnets adorning your refrigerator door;
- and just what is in that fridge?
If they could listen to your
conversations with your spouse, your children … what you say about your next
door neighbors … would they hear Christ’s love reflected in those conversations
(or bickering, complaining, yelling…)?
For the month of August, we’re
going to take a walk through the Christian home – room by room – and ask the
question, “Is Christ here?”
Is there
compelling evidence that yours is a “Christian home”?
How can your family begin to live out the love of Christ
with authenticity and integrity behind those closed doors? And when company
stops by?
See
you this Sunday at 9:00 or 10:30!
Stay
connected,
Pastor
Mike